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Thursday, February 23, 2017

Taking Advicing & Moving On With A Partner Who Cheated

 Hey guys, i know its been a long time i wrote anything about relationship, been having lots of questions sent to me lately so wanna help any one out there going through pains in their relationship... 




You love someone and they cheated on you its hard to forgive and forget but at the same time you don't wanna make decision you will regret for a long time. You might have friends around you saying stuff like oh drop him and all that no relationship is perfect they is ups and down yes they is betrayal that's the hardest to forget, it takes time but you will heal..

Healing: healing doesn't come from one person in that relationship it comes from you and your partner both of you must be ready to heal and do everything possible to heal forget and move on, I'm not talking about 2 weeks it takes time it depends on the dedication and the love you have for one and other. Communication is the key to healing.

 Moving on: Moving on isn't easy, you be thinking about a lot of things while trying to move on will he or she go back, will they do it again.. now you have the need to spy and look into everything your partner do, when you start doing that it means the trust in the relationship is gone now your partner have to make up for his or her betrayal show you they mean and ready to be with you.. if you do wanna move on from being hurt it takes two, both of you need to be dedicated to moving on if not it will never work. If you wanna move on you need to communicate about whatever hurt you (some people don't like to talk even when they hurting, please try and show how you feel if you cant talk about them)

Decision: Whatever you do don't let anybody make decisions for you in your relationship, or anything else in your life, they is nothing wrong with advice you can listen to them and take what you need from it if it ain't good then follower your heart. You don't need to talk to nobody to move on in your life about thing important to you..

 Here are  reasons why you shouldn't  listen to advice from others


1: you shouldn't listen cause whoever is giving the advice is inexperienced and doesn't really no what's best for you or understand you or they might just don't want the best for you ( yes we do have people out there who aren't happy because you are happy get use to it) that's why you should keep your relationship/problems to yourself

 2: you shouldn't listen cause, they just wanna listen so they can share with other, they is nothing worst than trusting someone with your pain and they are sharing it with someone else. Its wrong and that's another reason why you shouldn't.

3. When it’s women offering the advice, it’s a whole of lot of “how to avoid dating a jerk.” Either way, these people are way too cynical to be advising anyone and should just stick to angrily yelling at couples as they walk by in the park until they’re ready to rejoin the rest of us in the bar without making a scene. So to let you all know some people are angry and bitter and you do not wanna take advice from them trust me lol.

Here Are Reasons Why You Should Take Advice From Others 


1: why you should seek advice; they might just be going through the same thing and need help too but have no one to share it with and when you have someone you share the same pain with you tend to make good choices together.

2: Someone who truly care about you, whether it’s your mother or your lifelong friend, will give you heartfelt words of wisdom. they wont want you to make bad choice they will give you advice and still let you make your own choice because they care about you and they want you to grow.

3: Take advice from someone who really wanna help, someone who is more experience in relationship, like your mother gran mother mother in-law name older people, they do give good advice and have experience one or two failure, we grow from our failure, what we fail in we tend to get back up stronger and better.


Sunday, October 18, 2015

LOL: Check Out The New McDonald's Happy Meal Toy


Check out the new McDonald's happy meal toy. 'They say it's a chicken. Does this in any way look like chicken? Lol




PHOTO: President Barrack Obama's Daughter Sasha Obama & Her Homecoming Date


President Obama's second daughter Sasha Obama, 14, went on her very first date with this cutie. She looked lovely as she posed with him as they headed to homecoming this weekend. I wonder what sort of background check he went through lol. I like that the Obama's are letting their daughters do normal teenage stuff.

39 Years Old Married Man Poisons 25 Years Old Pregnant Girlfriend Chinonye Ella & Buries Her In Shallow Grave



39-year-old Chamberlin Ojoko, has been arrested after he allegedly gave his pregnant girlfriend, Chinonye Ella, 25, a local abortion concoc­tion.
The concoction caused fatal adverse reaction that resulted in her death, on July 20, 2015.  Ojoko was alleged to have calmly gone home to borrow a shovel from his brother, Pastor Sopuruchi and buried the corpse of the deceased girlfriend in a shallow grave, which he dug at the back of an uncom­pleted building owned by one Dr Maduakolam Ukaegbu, a kinsman.

According to the Imo State Commissioner of Police, Mr. Taiwo Lakanu, the chain of events that ultimately led to the untimely death of Chinonye began the day she boarded the same bus with Ojoko in December 2014, at Achingali, in Obowo Local Government Area, Imo State.
They chatted along the way as the trip progressed and then exchanged phone numbers. While Chinonye lived in Umuahia, Ojoko on his part resided in Port Harcourt. Over the intervening period, Ojoko regularly invited her to Owerri, where they would lodge in a hotel and have fun. After each visit, he would give her N3,000 to N4,000 to cover her trans­portation costs. This continued until Chinonye informed him that she had become pregnant.

Apparently, the news that she had conceived was not well received by Ojoko, who set about sourcing for a local concoction, probably after convincing her on the need to abort the innocent unborn child.
Lakanu explained further that on July 20, 2015, the suspect took Chi­nonye to an uncompleted building at Ezeakam Eziudo, his community, where he gave her the local abortion concoction. Within hours, her condition became critical as intense pain wracked her body, particularly around the stomach.
At the headquarters of the Imo State Police Command, where he is being held in custody while investi­gations continue, Ojoko recounted to Sunday Sun, what happened that fateful night he gave his girlfriend the abortion concoction.

He said: “On July 20, 2015, I took my girlfriend to an uncom­pleted building around 6:30pm. My girlfriend took the herbal medicine, but later she started writhing in pain. Then she died. I ran to my house and took a shovel; I carried her body to the side of the building. I dug the ground and buried her in a shallow grave.”
Believing in his heart that he had covered his deed like Cain, who killed his brother Abel, Ojoko re­turned to Port Harcourt, to the warm embrace of his unsuspecting and pregnant wife. But unknown to him, a certain little girl had seen him carry out the dead body of Chinonye, and dump it in the grave he dug. The little girl later told the owner of the building about the horrific crime she saw. After the shock of the reve­lation wore off, Dr. Ukaegbu ran to the Ezinihitte police station to report what he was told by the girl.

The police station contacted the Head of the Homicide Unit at the Imo State headquarters in Owerri, Supol Inno­cent Obi, who led his men, Pastor Sopuruchi Ojoko (brother of the suspect) and Dr. Ukaegbu, to Port Harcourt, where Chamberlain Ojoko was arrested.
Giving further insight to the inci­dent, brother of the suspect, Pastor Sopuruchi Ojoko, told Sunday Sun:
“I saw my brother Chamberlin Ojoko and his girlfriend on that day around 3.00pm. They didn’t enter our house in the compound; instead they walked toward Eziudo road. About 9:00pm, I saw that my elder brother, Chamberlin, returned to the house without the girl.
“He requested for shovel and took it to the bush. He didn’t return till 11:00pm. I asked him where he was coming from at that late hour; he said he went to the toilet. I asked him, why he came to the village without informing us. He replied that he was working at the building site. I saw bruises and wounds on his hand. When information got to us that my elder brother murdered his girl­friend, I had to take the policemen to Port-Harcourt to arrest him.”
On August 15, 2015, the body of the deceased girlfriend was ex­humed and autopsy conducted. The policemen discovered how he used the deceased girlfriend’s cloth to choke her. There were stains of the victim’s blood at the uncompleted building. The police also learnt that the suspect threw away the handset of the deceased girlfriend.

As it stands now, Lakanu said the Command is concerned to locate the relations of the deceased given that her handset which could have offered assistance in this regard was thrown away by the suspect.
“We want members of the public to assist us and provide information that would help us find the relations of the deceased. We learnt from the suspect that the deceased resided in Umuahia, Abia State, before her demise,” Lakanu pleaded.

70 Years Old Amos Otene Resurrected After He Was Certified Dead By Medical Practitioners In Makurdi Benue State Nigeria


70-year-old Amos Otene reportedly resurrected after he was certified dead by medical practitioners in Makurdi, Benue State.
According to a report, Doctors at a private hospital in the town had, on Wednesday, August 26, 2015, certified Otene dead at 4.30 a.m. and wheeled him into the mortuary where his was for 30 hours awaiting instructions from members of the family for embalming.
According to reports, Otene had had a toothache and was rushed to the private clinic, on Tuesday, August 25. A day later, he was certified dead and the doctors whose names were not mentioned in the report wanted to embalm him but because there was no family member to give the go-ahead, they instructed that his body be wheeled to the morgue.

30 hours later, Eche Otene, the son of the ‘deceased’, who lives in Lafia, Nasarawa State, went to the morgue to identify his father's body, however when he got there, his father raised his hand to acknowledge the presence of his son and followed that gesture by sitting up on the mortuary trolley.

The question everyone want answered is: Was the man sentenced to death by an inexperienced medical team or did he actually die but was brought back to life by God?

People who believe in science think Pa Otene could not have died in the first place and the question of resurrection was out of the question. The only explanation, according to a Makurdi-based medical practitioner, Dr. Ameh Edace, is that the  retiree could only have been “in a long coma”.
The Medical Director of Rekiya Memorial Hospital, Kaduna, Dr. Bello Mohammed, said that “in the history of medicine, there has not been any case of anybody coming back to life after being certified dead.” He added:

“If a person is pronounced clinically dead, he remains dead and there is no way he can come back to life, certainly not after 24 hours. On this case in question, the only medical explanation is that the patient was in a long coma.”
To this school of thought therefore, if  doctors  had certified Pa Otene dead, then the competence of such  doctors  should be called to question.

There are others who think it's a miracle by God who brought him back to life.

Is this a case of a miracle or medical incompetence?