http://www.addurl.nu/ Maureen Renfro's Blog: May 2013

Friday, May 31, 2013

OAP Of Wazobia FM Nedu Weds Longtime Sweetheart Uzo


Nedu is an  OAP (On Air Personal) with Wazobia Fm. Nedu just got married to his longtime sweetheart. Congratulations to the new couple....



Nigerian Comedian AY Shared A Bedroom Picture Of His Wife


Ace comedian AY , shared this hot picture of his wife on Instagram.... Yeah we get it she is hot.

Monday, May 27, 2013

Ex CrimeWatch Presenter Nick Ross Defends Rape Remarks 'Rape Isn't Always Rape' In His New Book


Broadcaster Nick Ross has been forced to defend himself over controversial remarks suggesting "rape isn't always rape".

The former Crimewatch presenter made the comments in his new book, serialised in the Mail On Sunday, in which he claimed half of all women who have had penetrative sex unwillingly do not think they were raped.

The comments, which have been criticised by some anti-rape campaigners, follow an outcry in 2011 when Ken Clarke, the then-justice secretary, faced calls to resign for using the words "serious rape".

In a statement, Ross, 65, insisted the book was "serious, carefully researched and evidence-based" and described rape as "one of the most defiling crimes".

He said: "Far from attacking victims the chapter explores why so few victims report rape, why so few prosecutions take place, and whether criminal courts are the best way of helping to deal with the appalling suffering caused by sex attacks."

In the extract from his book, Crime, Ross said it had become "sacrilege to suggest that there can be any gradation: rape is rape".

"The real experts, the victims, know otherwise," he wrote.

"Half of all women who have had penetrative sex unwillingly do not think they were raped, and this proportion rises strongly when the assault involves a boyfriend, or if the woman is drunk or high on drugs: they went too far, it wasn't forcible, they didn't make themselves clear.

"For them, rape isn't always rape and however upsetting, they feel is a long way removed from being systematically violated or snatched off the street."

In response to the Mail On Sunday's publication, Ross said the paper had chosen to focus on a single chapter which "touches on the highly emotive issue of rape".

He admitted the edited version was fair but claimed his views were not as thoroughly explained as in the full text of the book.

In his statement, Ross said: "For the record, lest it needs saying, and, as I make clear in the published extracts, anyone who suffers such a violating crime should be the centre of our concerns.

"As I write in the book, rape is one of the most defiling crimes and there is never excuse or justification for it."

But Sarah Green, campaigner with End Violence Against Women , said: "It's really disappointing - more than that, it's horrible - that a reputable journalist like Nick Ross, with expertise associated with crime through Crimewatch, is trotting out with the same spurious myths about rape."

Friday, May 24, 2013

Things Toxic Friends Do & How to Leave Them


Toxic friends can stress you out and are overly demanding and selfish.  Toxic friends can affect every part of your life as well as the lives of the people close to you. Precious time slips away as you deal with their negativity; and you’re left wondering why you feel so despondent.  If you’re ready to simplify your life, you can’t condone these toxic friendships any longer.

 

What Toxic Friends Do

 

1. They drain you. – You feel psychologically and emotionally depleted after spending time with them, instead of uplifted.


2. They are unsupportive. – You’re afraid to tell them about new, important aspects of your life because they’ve been unsupportive or downright rude about your ideas in the past.

3. They are up to no good. – They regularly partake in activities that are morally unjust.

4. Their values and interests are opposite to your own. – Dissimilar value systems often mix like oil and water.  This doesn’t necessarily mean the other person is wrong, it just means they aren’t right for you.

5. They are unreliable. – They always break their promises.

6. They only contact you when they need something. – Otherwise you never hear from them.

7. They aren’t meeting you halfway. – If you are always the one calling your friend to make plans and going out of your way to be with them, but they never return the favor and attempt to go out of her way for you, there’s a problem.

8. They are jealous of you. – Jealousy is:  “I want what you have and I want to take it away from you.”

9. They have zero ambition. – Beware; a lack of ambition can be contagious.  As the saying goes, “You can’t soar like an eagle when you hang out with turkeys.”

10. They constantly drive you to moments of insanity. – You catch yourself daydreaming about how good it would feel to slap them in the face.

How to Leave a Toxic Friend

 

There are two ways to end a toxic friendship:  quickly and painfully or slowly and awkwardly.  Neither is fun, neither is neat, and neither is easy.

If you still want to keep this person in your life, just to a lesser degree:

1. Stop responding to fake crisis calls. – If you don’t drop everything to take their “I’m so devastated! That jerk from marketing wore the same shirt as me” calls, they’ll find someone else who will.  Or they’ll deal with it.  Either way, it’s okay to step back and get off the first alert calling list for non-emergencies.

2. Take positive control of negative conversations. – It’s okay to change the topic, talk about you, or steer conversations away from pity parties and self-absorbed sagas.  Be willing to disagree with them and deal with the consequences.

3. Demonstrate that you won’t be insulted or belittled. – To be honest, I’ve never had much luck trying to call toxic people out when they’ve insulted me.  The best response I’ve gotten is, “I’m sorry you took what I said so personally.”  Much more effective has been ending conversations with sickening sweetness or just plain abruptness.  The message is clear:  There is no reward for subtle digs and no games will be played at your end.

4. Be brutally honest. – Some people really don’t recognize their own toxic tendencies or their inconsiderate behavior.  You can actually tell a person, “I feel like you ignore me until you need something.”  You can also be honest if their overly negative attitude is what’s driving you away:  “I’m trying to focus on positive things.  What’s something good that we can talk about?”  It may work and it may not, but your honesty will ensure that any friendship that continues forward is built on mutually beneficial ground.

If you just want to completely end your relationship with the person in question:

1. Stop taking their calls completely. – If you’re stuck seeing them on a regular basis, like a coworker, keep things on a purely professional level.  Find a reason to leave and excuse yourself as needed.  It’s passive aggressive to expect avoidance to handle the problem, but it’s an important component.  You can’t cut ties if you still chat on a regular basis.

2. Firmly tell them you’ve had enough. – If you’ve decided it’s time to cut a truly toxic influence out of your life, you can let them know honestly (without being cruel).  “I just can’t be friends with you right now” isn’t fun to hear, but it has the benefit of putting everybody on the same page.

3. Make new friends worth having. – Seriously!  Give your time to friends you connect with and enjoy.  The long shadows of toxic friends shrink considerably when you’ve got better things to do with your time than worry about their negativity.

Finally, Be a Good Friend

 

It doesn’t help to cut toxic friends out of your life if you’re not ready to foster quality friendships.  On occasion, you may find that the toxicity of a friendship drains away when you start being a better friend yourself.  Honestly, I’m not trying to preach; this is something I’m working on in my life.

Make that first call, offer a genuine compliment, schedule a fun outing with another person in mind, send that ridiculously funny text for no real reason – there are tons of ways to nurture your friendships.  When you’re surrounded by good friends and good intentions, it’s amazing how pettiness and toxicity simply evaporates.

Friday, May 17, 2013

Kim Kardashian Baby Shower Invitation In A Music Box Singing "Gold Digger"


Kim Kardashian baby shower invitations are on a whole other level! The invitation is in ornate music boxes that opened to reveal a pretty melody, a twirling ballerina, and the printed letter. I think she was inspired by the fancy butterfly invites in Bridesmaids! But unfortunately, the ballerina is dancing to Kanye West's song "Gold Digger", which kind of make it a whole lot cooler. If the invitations are any indication, her baby shower party is going to be bigger than that bump!

Thursday, May 16, 2013

Ghanian Actress Yvonne Nelson, Nollywood Actress Tonto Dikeh & BBA Star Karen Igho In Flaunts Bikini Body


We all have already Seen Yvonne Nelson in bikini but we can't get tired of it can we? Now check out Tonto Dikeh and Karen Igho in bikini. Who shouldn't wear clothes anymore? *grin* I pick Karen Igho, mad curves lol.

Wednesday, May 15, 2013

9 Unusual Ways To Let Go & Move On


Letting go is difficult, but it’s something you constantly have to do as you live from one day to the next.  It’s a necessary process of adapting to the ever-changing environment you live in – leaving behind the old to make way for the new.

There are many reasons you may want to let go sooner rather than later.  Maybe someone wants you to be someone you’re not, maybe you’ve had your trust broken too many times by the same person, or maybe you’ve simply been living a lifestyle that makes you unhappy.  The possibilities are obviously endless.

The idea of letting go can seem daunting, but it can be done if you approach letting go from an effective, creative perspective.  It’s not just telling yourself to “get your mind off of it by doing other things.”  That advice is too vague, and if it were that easy you’d already be doing it.

Let’s take a look at some unique approaches that work – nine unusual ways to learn to let go and move on with your life:

1.  Write down your troubles and torch them.
Pour your heart’s troubles out onto a sheet of paper, make a paper ball, and toss your troubles into a fire.  A very cliché movie-type scene is what I describe this as, but it provides an amazing sense of closure.  I’ve actually done this before during some very difficult times in my life.

I took my pain and bled honest thoughts into my writing.  I wrote words that I was too afraid to say out loud because I knew no one would get the chance to read it.  After that, I rolled them into a ball and tossed them all into fire.

The key is to connect your sorrow to that sheet of paper as you toss it and watch it burn. That’s you making the choice to move on.

2.  Sing your own feel-good song.
Literally, write your own lyrics to a feel-good song and start rocking.  You don’t have to be a talented singer or writer to do this.  Find some alone time and start singing like there’s no one listening (because there isn’t!)

Make the lyrics about how you’re going to move on from the struggles and become stronger tomorrow.  Or make it even cheesier on purpose so that every time you sing your song, you can smile and laugh.  It’s goofy fun and it’s great as a mood lifter.

You can also write lyrics to remind yourself that there are thousands of amazing things happening at this exact moment in time.  It will be the perfect pick-me-up.

Singing releases endorphins, which are chemicals in your brain that can help you feel good.  So naturally you should sing your sorrows away, and associate your feel-good song with happiness and the perseverance of moving on.

3.  Flip a coin.
Play a game with yourself.  Heads you move on.  Tails you let go.  Every time you find yourself pondering about yesterday’s sorrows, you have to play this game.  Keep flipping the coin and repeat it in your head.  Heads you move on.  Tails you let go.  It might sound a little odd, but it’s a great reminder.

4. People-watch and be inspired.
Pick a comfortable place where there will be a lot of strangers walking around. The park is the perfect setting for people watching.  As you people-watch, you have to keep one thing in mind:  Realize that every single person on this Earth is a complex character living out his or her own real life movie script.  They are the protagonists of their own story, each complete with their own set of ideas, struggles and choices that led them to where they are now.

They’re living an elaborate life filled with moments of celebration as well as hours of darkness, just like you.  You’re not alone in this world; we all work to move on from things every day.  Perhaps you’re just the background character in these stranger’s stories, but you’re definitely not alone in your struggles.

5.  Tell yourself a horror story.
Turn on the creativity muscle again because this one’s another artistic challenge.  This is where you envision that you stayed on the same path that made you realize you needed to let go and move on in the first place.  Picture the worst-case scenarios possible in an alternate universe.  If someone recently broke up with you, imagine how unhappy you’d be ten years down the road if this same person had led you on for a decade before they broke up with you.  If you had to cut out a toxic friend recently, think of how much more that person could have drained from you if you had let the relationship fester.

Picturing the worst-case scenario can give you new perspectives on your current situation.  Who knows how much worse it could have been?  Be glad there are still new opportunities out there and the future is going to feel exciting again.

6.  Think about something positive happening now.
Think of all the wonderful things happening.  There are thousands, probably millions, of wonderful things happening at this exact moment in time.  At this exact moment, there’s a high chance that somewhere in the world someone is in the exact situation you are, except they have accepted their situation and let go enough to move on.

Seriously, think about it.  There are over seven billion people on this Earth.  There are countless people fighting the same battle you’re fighting, simultaneously alongside you.  Use this thought as inspiration.

7.  Get lost with a group of friends.
Note: This may be a bit more dangerous than the other suggestions here, so take precautions.

You and several of your trusted friends need to go out in town and try to get lost (during the day).  The hard part isn’t just finding your way back; you’ll be surprised how hard it is to actually force yourself to get lost.  It’s an adventurous game that can help your mind let go of your comfort zone and needless worries.  You and your friends will be busy laughing, focusing on how to get lost, and then working together to find your way back home.

8.  Use a private blog to brain dump and delete.
Create a private blog, write about what’s bothering you in an unfiltered stream of consciousness, read what you wrote, and then hit delete.  Much like the paper ball idea, get your ideas down into writing where you know it won’t be seen by anyone.  Be honest, don’t hold anything back, and just type whatever pops up in your head.  Read it ONCE, and then delete the post.

That’s you acknowledging all the emotions, the sadness, and the attachments while making the conscious decision to let go.  Do this as often as you need to as the feelings resurface.  And of course, be sure to private this blog so that only you can see what is written.

9.  Use a reminder charm.
Choose an object that you can keep in your pocket, like a special coin, an interesting rock, or even your phone.  Every time you feel like your thoughts are dragging you down, catch yourself, put your hand onto your charm and imagine all those negative thoughts leaving your brain and traveling down your arm to your fingertips, and finally into the charm.

 Your charm can empower you and remind you to let go and be strong.  It can remind you how to be yourself when your thoughts cloud your mind.

Final Thoughts
Stop reading and start implementing.

It’s easy to read twenty articles in one day on the subject of letting go and improving your life and then fool yourself into believing you’re making progress.  No, you need to take the advice, internalize it, and implement it.

Angelina Jolie Next Procedure To Prevent Ovarian Cancer


Angelina Jolie recently revealed how she's undergone surgery to remove both her breasts, to prevent breast cancer. "She is doing well", a source tells People. Now she's getting ready for her next procedure, to remove her ovaries.

Angie has still got a 50 % risk of developing ovarian cancer, and the doctors recommend her to undergo surgery now that she's done having children.

Video: Syrian Rebel Commander Abu Sakkar Cuts Out Dead Soldier's Organs & Eats The Heart


A gruesome and  shocking video just emerged  and shows Syrian Rebel commander Abu Sakkar, known to journalists and revered by many rebels, on Sunday cutting organs out of a dead soldier and biting into his heart.

Addressing the camera as he ripped the flesh, Abu Sakkar said: "I swear to God we will eat your hearts and your livers," he warned President Bashar Assad's forces as his men cheered


Christian Association of Nigeria "CAN" Secretary Of Borno State killed Minutes After President Jonathan's Broadcast


Just minutes after President Jonathan declared a State of Emergency in three State (Adamawa, Borno & Yobe), the Secretary of the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) in the state, Reverend Faye Pama Musa was killed by suspected Boko Haram members. This happened around 7.30pm yesterday evening.

Reverend Pama Musa, who was the head pastor of a pentecostal church in Maiduguri, was shot dead inside his GRA home by two gunmen who trailed him to his residence. The head quarters of Borno CAN have confirmed his killing.

Nigerian President Goodluck Jonathan Declares State Of Emergency In 3 Northern State "Adamawa, Borno & Yobe"


President Jonathan has declared an indefinite state of emergency in three Northern states, Adamawa, Borno and Yobe, citing insecurity. He made the announcement in a nationwide live broadcast yesterday (tuesday May 14 2013) evening. With this declaration, the president has given the military the authority to take over the security of the states, though all political office holders in the states would still continue in office.

President Jonathan said the efforts at dialogue with militants will continue but will take extra ordinary measures to maintain peace. He immediately ordered troops to be deployed to the states to arrest and detain suspected terrorists, take over of suspicious buildings, and detain persons suspected to be in possession of arms. On terrorism, he said:

"We will hunt them down, fish them out and bring them to justice. No matter what it takes, we will win this war against terror"

Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Over 50 Mourners in Agatu, Benue State Killed By Fulani Herdsmen


Over 50 mourners were killed yesterday Sunday May 12th in Benue State by Fulani herdsmen who attacked them as they buried their dead. The herdsmen stormed Okpachanyi village in Agatu local government area of the state and opened fire on the mourners, killing at least 50 of them. Others escaped with serious injuries.

The mourners had gathered to bury two of the policemen killed last week Tuesday by Ombatse cult members in Nassarawa state.

78 Years Old "Missing" Woman Found In Son's Wardrobe 10 Years After!


The police in Imo State have arrested one Chimezie Osuigwe, a retired vice-principal, for the alleged murder of his 78-year-old mother in 2003.
Osuigwe was arrested after the embalmed body of the septuagenarian was discovered in a cupboard at his house by a family member.
“The corpse of Mrs Lucy Osuigwe, who was declared missing in 2003 was found in a large cupboard inside a shrine in a private room in a circumstance depicting ritual practice.
“The embalmed body, which was kept in that condition for about 10 years is believed to have been placed in the wardrobe by her son, Dr ChimezieOsuigwe, a devotee of the Guru Maharaji Sect.
The heart of man is desperately wicked! Even one's own mother is not safe with her children! 

Monday, May 13, 2013

20 Years Old Gbenga Adeniyi Attempt To Kill His Mother For Money Ritual

20-year-old man, Gbenga Adeniyi, who allegedly attempted to kill his biological mother for money making ritual, has been remanded in prison by an Akure Magistrate Court. The incident took place on May 9 at about 3 a.m. at Abiribiri Street, Isolo, Akure. Gbenga Adeniyi woke his mother, Doja Saka, from her sleep. When she woke up, he used a big stone to hit her on her forehead. She lost consciousness and blood started rushing out of her forehead and he used scissors to inflict injury on her eyes she is now receiving treatment at State Specialist Hospital, Akure. The stone he used in beating the victim attracted one Sikiru Fatai who rescued the woman from the accused person and alerted the police.” Mr. Adeniyi, the last child of the victim’s first husband, was said to have shaved and burnt his mother’s hair that same night for diabolical means. When Mrs. Saka, popularly called “Iya Oba” appeared in court prior to the trial, she looked frail with a deep hole in her left eye with various incisions on her face and blood gushing out. She was, however, rushed to the State specialist Hospital Akure for medical attention. When the charge was read to the accused, he pleaded guilty to the first count charge of using scissors and stone to inflict severe injuries on the eyes and head of his mother. He, however, pleaded not guilty to the second count charge of causing grievous harm on her. In his ruling, the Chief Magistrate, Akin Akintoye, reserved ruling on count one pending the issuance of a medical report and adjourned the hearing on count two to May 14. He ordered the accused to be remanded in prison. The magistrate ordered that Mr. Adeniyi should be kept in Olokuta Prison custody pending the time police will come up with a medical report.

[Rumor] Beyonce & Jay-Z Expecting Baby Number Two

Beyonce and Jay-Z welcomed their first child, daughter Blue Ivy Carter in January 2012. Now rumor has it that she's expecting their second child already. Multiple sources claims Beyonce has announced her pregnancy to friends and family, but wants wait to make it official. At the Met Ball last week she carefully hidden her stomach in a high-waisted Givenchy gown, which also fueled the rumors.

Selena Gomez Denies Justin Bieber Reconcilation - Yap She Is Available

Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber got separated back in December, and ever since fans have all been waiting for them to reconcile. Rumor has it they're dating again, but that's not what Selena herself claims. In an interview on Boston's Kiss 108 she decided to clear up all rumors about her being with Justin again. "So sometimes you may see a boy walking down the street and he says, 'lets grab a ice-cream' you're available? Selena responded with the word,"Yep." Then she was asked: "You're completely available in every way, and again she responded with a, "Yep!"

Ghanian Actress Yvonne Nelson & Her Beautiful Mom

Now if you ask me I would say she is destined to be fat lol.... Cute tho *wink*

Thursday, May 9, 2013

Is This The End Of Marriage As We Know It - Your Own Personal Sex Doll For 6000 Dollars



These are pictures of a Swedish doll  made of silicone.

The  texture of the skin is similar to 99.8% of the  human 
skin. 

It will last two years if used  constantly and 
consistently every day.

Completely adjustable to  any position you want. 

There are 100 sensors  spread around the body.

There are 30 sensors on the private  parts.
Each sensor makes her move in a specific  way, up to 20  positions.

On  penetration she emits a light gentle sound that echoes gently in your  ears. 

Comes with inbuilt sound in the  throat and recognizes up to 16 commands that are extremely  personal up to  two meters away from her ears..

When there is any type of  pulsation sensed in her private parts she emits light moans of  stimulation.

Above all  that she gets wet with a slight touch over  any of the sensors.

Most important, she has a  voice password which should be protected from  disclosure. 

Principal  characteristics:

She  has three entries (vaginal , anal, and oral)

She can  move her head in any direction you choose.

Completely customizable to  your liking so you can 
choose the following: 
    SIZE 
   HEIGHT 
   SKIN  COLOR
   EYES COLOR 
   HAIR COLOR   
   PUBIC HAIR COLOR OR COMPLETELY SHAVEN. 

NUMEROUS ADVANTAGES AND FEW  DISADVANTAGES. 

ADVANTAGES..  

She does  not speak    
She does  not get fat    
She never  has periods    
She does  not pass gas    
She never  goes shopping  
She does  not get pregnant  
She does  not have a mother    
She never  ever gets headaches    
She does  not go to the hairdresser    
She does  not watch soaps or Oprah  
She does  not care what we watch on TV    
She does  not frequent internet chat rooms  
She will  never get elderly human physical attributes   
She will  not get jealous if you bring home another   
woman     
She will  not nag if you go out and she won't care   
when you  return 

   Only   $6,000.00 

Would buy this doll?

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Robert Kardashian Ex Girlfriend Rita Ora Now Dating Scottish DJ Calvin Harris!


Rita Ora has been single ever from splitting from Robert Kardashian. Well, until now, since she's started dating Scottish DJ Calvin Harris. The couple are already said to be unseperable.

Rita visited him in Las Vegas this weekend, where he was performing. ''She was in the DJ booth during his entire performance and the two were seen getting really cosy and kissing", an eyewitness told Page Six. Another source says it's all very new, but that their friends already call them the "perfect couple".

Late Michael Jackson New Child Molestation Claim By Wade Robson


Late Michael Jackson has been posthumously accused of molesting a now-famous choreographer who spent lots of time with the late singer at the Neverland Ranch. Legal document filed by Wade Robson in which he's asking for money from the Michael Jackson Estate for childhood sexual abuse.  Robson now 30 years old, has worked with top names in pop music including Britney Spears, NSYNC, Usher and Pink. He has also appeared on "So You Think You Can Dance." Wade met Michael Jackson when he was 5 years old and they developed a friendship that lasted for years.  By the time Wade was 7, he went for sleepovers at Neverland and Michael Jackson's homes in L.A. and Vegas. The sleepovers continued until Wade was 14. Wade even performed to a Michael Jackson song on "Star Search" when he was 8 years old. In 2005, Wade testified in Michael Jackson molestation trial and DENIED Michael ever molested him. Wade's lawyer filed legal document May 1st asking the judge in the Michael Jackson Estate case to allow him to file a late creditor's claim against the Estate.  In the documents, Wade's lawyer says he submitted a never-before filed complaint "for childhood sexual abuse."Wade's lawyer has filed the actual complaint under seal -- which means it's not available to the public. ... The complaint specifically outlines the alleged abuse at the hands of Michael Jackson. Wade's lawyer also mentions a psychiatrist who treated Wade -- the doctor is a leader in the field of child psychology. Interestingly in the 2005 molestation trial, Jackson's former housekeeper, Blanca Francia, testified she witnessed Jackson in the shower with Wade when the boy was 8 or 9 years old.....

Tuesday, May 7, 2013

What's Wrong With This Picture? LOL


This picture taken in Abuja at Wusa 2. Its only in Naija you will see this lmao.

New GLO Ambassadors - Omawumi, Flavour & Waje Port To GLO




Last month, it was reported that Tiwa Savage, Lynxxx, Omawumi, Tiwa Savage, Flavour, MI, Bez, Naeto C, Chidynma and Lagbaja were all going to join the Telecommunications giant as GLO ambassadors, after dropping most of its Nollywood ambassadors in return. So far, Lagbaja has been confirmed and so also has Burna Boy. But now, three more names have officially been added to the bill – Omawumi, Waje & Flavour.