Maureen Renfro's Blog: What Happens when He Stops Talking To You

Saturday, November 23, 2013

What Happens when He Stops Talking To You

A Lot of things go through the mind, Like he is busy working, maybe he is seeing someone else,  family ties are keeping him away from calling or  texting, or maybe he doesn't want you anymore. What if your thoughts are correct? What if he doesn't want you anymore?

1.You have a man and you have been in a suppose relationship for about a month or two or even more, then all of a sudden he doesn't pick interest in you anymore, the reason is guys can be easily offended and turned off. Although they give off rough and tough exteriors, guys are also sensitive and have their own insecurities. Sometimes we can do things that may offend or upset guys. It could be something that seemed so insignificant to you, but to him it was enough to set him off. It could be anything from embarrassing him in front of his friends to unknowingly making a face when he got naked, that's how crazy they can be. Guys can be very insecure, especially when it comes to their "manhood." If they think you aren't satisfied or they think you will hurt them first, they may just throw in the towel first to avoid any future emotionally awkward situations.

2. He isn't interested in you anymore? ‎it's not easy to hear at all! If a guy is dating someone and realizes he doesn't like her, he will most likely give her the cold shoulder until she gets the hint. Guys don't like to "hurt" women's feelings, tho it happens but not intentionally  and therefore, they tend to just ignore the problem until it goes away. So if you can't get a straight answer from him or he is going out of his way to avoid you, he probably doesn't like you anymore, or never really did.

3. Wondering if he is seeing someone else? ‎If a guy you are dating suddenly stops returning your calls, it may be because he is suddenly calling someone else. It is not a far fetched notion that the guy you are dating has already found a replacement before you were even able to plan your two month anniversary. And if he suddenly calls you back weeks later, don't answer the phone! His "other relationship" probably didn't work out the way he wanted. If you do answer his call after weeks he will know that you were waiting for him and that he has a certain amount of control over you, and he will take advantage of that, don't let him. 

4. You thinking he is busy?‎ First things first, a man can never be too busy for his heart unless his heart is not with you. If he says he is busy working,then he might just be using work as an excuse. There's no such thing as not knowing your schedule. It's not like they can just make you come in whenever they want. Even when you're on call, they still tell you beforehand when you're going to be on call. Not knowing when he has time off is ridiculous. Even the busiest people you still see them wooing someone they like. If he loves you or like you he will make time for you, sure the schedules are hectic but still they make time. Who doesn't have time for a 40 seconds text message or 30 second phone call?

5. So why didn't he call you?‎ The bottom line is that if he stopped calling you and won't even return your phone calls, leave him alone! If he can't prove himself within the first few months of dating he will not be any better in many months of dating! First impressions do mean something. If the first impression you got from him was that he ‎doesn't know how to pick up a phone and call you 
then stop the relationship before you get hurt i
n the relationship even more!

A Lot of things happen in a man's mind that isn't so different from a woman's.... Next time we read about what happens when she stops talking to you.